Life Journey within one week

Not having recovered from the DHNS youth convention in Tampa, I found myself on the highway to Charlotte, NC with a friend to visit the dying mother of a Salesian priest friend of mine.

Staying over night at her son’s house, we stayed up late talking with the family. We talked about the feisty mother who has been so strong to hold on to life with her very frail health; we talked about the loving father who has been so hurt seeing his loved one dying; we talked about the hardship that every single member of the family endures taking care of their wife/mother/mother-in-law/grandmother. Those are what we talked about; but what I saw was the tremendous love everyone was pouring out for one another. The daughter-in-law amazed me with her gentleness and utmost care when I caught her several time wiping the mother’s face and combing her hair. The loving husband made my heart sink when I caught him sitting quietly next to her for hours. He just looked at her and she looked at him. Not one word. Only enduring love. They have been together and the have been through so many ups and downs of their lives. The oldest daughter was patiently taking to her mom though she knew it was only a one-way communication: whatever the mom said, everyone understood, but she did not comprehend whatever was going on and being said. The grown son made a comment while spoonfeeding his mother, “Human life moves through cycle: you start out as a baby and you come back to the baby stage at the end of your life. My mom is acting like a baby now.” He stopped to hold the juice bottle for her to drink. “The problem is,” he continued, “with babies everyone wants to take care of, but with old people, they are easy to be forgotten and abandoned.” We all nodded, not knowing what to think of it. I didn’t know what he meant; I only saw the love and care that he was pouring out for his mom in these last days. He’s a business man, father of two, carrying some sickness himself. Over the 20 hours I stayed at their house, if he was not busy feeding her, he was fixing her bed, bathing her, cleaning the house in between business phone calls that he still had to make. The two school-age boys hugged their grandmother when they got home from school then went off to do homework, then play. I guess they couldn’t understand much what it really means to have a family member’s life slowly passed away in front of them. But that doesn’t matter much because what they are also witnessing is greater than any force in life. They are witnessing the love everyone is giving each other. This love their whole family is giving to their grandmother is not based on the beautiful appearances, because their dying grandmother is obviously not beautiful; not on physical strength because she is at her most frail stage of health; not on excitement, because there are only slow and silent moments in the house; not on productivity because their grandmother is doing nothing but being fed, and their whole family spends all their time taking care of her.

Yes, they are experiencing the counter-cultured love. They are experiencing the true Christian love through family love. The seed of love is being implanted in them when the see what their parents, their aunt and their grandfather are doing.

Young people renew my enthusiasm for life. Old people remind me of the beauty of life. But people treating each other with Christian assures me of the love of God.

Daydream in class these days

Living a life on my own strength
Thought I could do well, and could go at length
But without you in just a heart beat
I came to term with who I truly need

It's not about me
But grace given for free
It's not about strength
But your mercy that never ends
It's not about success
But faith lived out at my best
It's not about righteousness
For who to you is just

It's not about me, it's not
But all about you, my God.

Stations of the Cross

I posted on this page the different versions of the Stations of the Cross that we used at my parish. The Lent 2007 is an adaptation, bilingual with slideshow and music accompaniment. The Lent 2008 is a shortened version, putting together by Class Vào Đời II, with a skit for each station. The third one was used by the Salesian January Leadership Retreat in 2007.

ABOVE ALL - TÌNH CAO SÂU

by Michael W. Smith

Verse 1
Above all powers, Above all kings
Above all nature, And all created things
Above all wisdom, And all the ways of man
You were here before the world began

Verse 2
Above all kingdoms, Above all thrones
Above all wonders the world has ever known
Above all wealth and treasures of the earth
There's no way to measure what You're worth

CHORUS
Crucified, laid behind the stone
You lived to die, rejected and alone
Like a rose trampled on the ground
You took the fall, and thought of me
Above all.







TÌNH CAO SÂU

Vượt quyền quý cao sang, quyền thần thế gian
Vượt ngàn kiếp sinh linh, trên hết muôn dân trần hoàng.
Ngài từ xưa đó đã có trước khi trời đất
Ôi, quyền năng Thiên Chúa có ai sánh bằng.

Một lời Chúa ban ra, thì liền có ngay
Mặt trời, ánh sao đêm, muôn thú cá chim từng bầy.
Người từ bụi đất, Chúa thổi hơi ban sự sống
Ôi, tình yêu Thiên Chúa, ôi sao tuyệt vời

Trên thập giá, Ngài chịu chết đau thương
Chịu chôn huyệt đá, trời đen khóc thê lương
Sống kiếp người đắng cay hay khổ đau
Chúa không e ngại, vì yêu đoàn con
Tình cao sâu.

SANCTUARY

Lord, prepare me
To be sanctuary
Pure and holy
Tried and true.

With thanksgiving
I'll be a living
Sanctuary
For you.





My translation:

Ước mong một đời
Làm nhan thánh Chúa Trời
Được trong trắng mãi
Được yêu chẳng phai.

Đếm ơn mọi ngày
Tình yêu Chúa thắp đầy
Nguyện xin hát khúc
Cám ơn Ngài.

THERE IS NONE LIKE YOU

Chorus:

There is none like you
No one else could touch my heart like you do
I could search for all eternity long, and find:
There is none like you.






My translation of the Chorus:

Có ai bằng Chúa đâu
Ai yêu con thiết tha, chạm hồn con thẳm sâu?
Con có kiếm muôn nơi trọn đời, nhưng vẫn là chân lý:
Có ai bằng Chúa đâu.

in preparing for DHNS - notes

Be Deeply Rooted so to be Far Reaching


I'm actually so happy when reading Long's email about some suggested themes for the next DHNS MDN. It is clear there are two themes they want to incorporate, and the reason I'm so happy is because these are the two very essential aspects of the identity of a member of TNTT, or even for any Catholic at all.

1 - Coming back to our root which is the Eucharist
2 - Reaching out to others through service, thus the awareness of the mission work led by cha Thong and cha Chuong

These are the two movements that a person goes through over his/her growing up. There are points in their life, the only way for them to reach the, so called, "spiritual being," or God, is through service: doing good deeds for others. There are also other points when they feel that the only way to reach God is through deep praying and worshiping. There is nothing wrong with either approach, but too much of one while lacking the other only reflects a spiritual life that is not yet wholesome: that person will continue sensing something missing in their life.

Is there a starting point: prayer first or service first? There may be several different points of view on this question, but in my experience, it really depends on the developmental stage of a person or an age group in a social context. For younger people, they may be at the stage when it is harder to grasp the spiritual as something one can communicate through prayer. They need something concrete. They also need to be able to "feel" what they are doing, and feel that what they are doing is really going somewhere. For groups of people who are more experienced in life, especially spiritual life, who are more capable of abstract thinking, and who are more able to reach the conviction that God does exist in the things that human can't touch or feel, they may be more likely to find God's presence through their praying and worshiping.

The important thing to remember is, however, that it doesn't matter where we start, we have to keep moving. The moment we think we have reached your destination in spiritual life, our spiritual life is dead. It has to keep leading us to the deeper and deeper levels. Meeting God through prayer and worship will purify our intention and and strengthen our charity, so we can serve people with a more unconditional love. Serving people with an unconditional love will lead us to a deeper conviction that we and our human family will forever need God who comes to satisfy our hearts' desire through prayer. The cycle keeps on to lead us to the deeper and deeper levels of reality.



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But for a Catholic, is that all: prayer and service? what makes us Catholic unique?

So we understand the role of prayer and worship and service in our spiritual life. What makes us Catholic unique from the rest is: more than prayer which is a human action, we have liturgy which is a divine action through human act.

--> Need to develop more on this thoughts

--> Maybe I can work on sketching or suggesting some applications for a Eucharistic way of life (spirituality)

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The four aspects of youth development = a suggested model for a youth convention


1. Human aspect: all the fun activities such as sports, competitions, games, community buildings, dramas, sight-seeing, youth rally (with the band)

2. The encounter with Jesus:
(a) the personal encounter: private prayer, adoration, praise & worship, faith-sharing sessions, quiet time for meditation, perpetual adoration (expose the Sacrament overnight with someone adoring all the time)
(b) the encounter within the Church: sacraments, liturgy

3. Membership in the Church community --> at this convention, it could be teaching NSs (and HTs) what it means to be a member of the Catholic Church: teachings about the Eucharist, for example ...

4. Mission: sent out to serve others --> raise awareness of cha Thong's and cha Chuong's mission works, I suggest some concrete plans and long term projects so the kids can go home and do it and do it for a long time.


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The Fourth Day: Now that we have fun at the Convention and all, what's next?

- Ongoing formation on the Eucharist:
* Nghia Si
* Huynh Truong (I think more important, since they will in turn lead Nghia Si, but it really depends on the condition of each Doan)

- Mission
Got to work w cha Chuong and cha Thong on this. Can we make a commitment? for how long? what involves?
--> get cha Chuong & cha Thong on board to plan for this before presenting the projects to NS